Dargen Dig!
April 27, 2008 by piereth
We spent most of today outside; Mouse got muddier and happier and more and more enthused by the whole proceedings. He has the most cunning little watering can and a set of tools of his own, but of course mummy’s are more fun. He went up and down the path with bamboo canes, and to and fro with pieces of wood that D was cutting to size to make Mouse a raised bed to grub in. When I asked him what he was doing, he said ‘Helpun!’ and I suppose he was!
Slighty spoiled things by getting frustrated that I couldn’t get on with digging. Gardening is some of the only peace and quiet I ever get, and I’m rabid about protecting it. But of course there’s always a nose to be wiped, nappy to change, or a small child to extricate from brambles, piles of wood, encounters with ladybirds (cue screams of Arghh!! Mummeeeee!), always fresh demands for cake, a drink, more water in the can.
I chucked a skitz and disappeared off indoors at high speed, only to be asked by D who threw bigger tantrums, me or the Mouse. I of course said, ‘Me!’ but I see his point. Where’s the harm in being mad and just being mad, rather than making it have consequences all the time? That would be a good trick. I’m just no good at bottling it all up, worst luck to the people who get caught in the fallout!
No great harm done; Mouse now flat out after being scrubbed from stem to stern to remove the mud; he went into the bath like a warty grinning potato and came out dripping like a starfish and angelically cherubic once again. I can’t help but think that garden grubbing is the very best exercise, entertainment and education for a young fella - constant learning, constant play and constant effort.
I’ve planted some squash seeds today - that will be our next project. I’m going to show him how things grow, if I can save any of them fron the slugs long enough!



Yep, I have long thought (and Monty Don backs me up, which is jolly nice) that gardening is one of the best, if not The Best, activities for the young. And the not so young. And the downright decrepit.
Start ‘em young, that way he can keep you in fresh veggies when you’re too old to hoe
HoeHoe!!
Too right my dear. Al has also got the vegetable bug - his little plot has been pressed into service and when he comes in from work he’s out there diggin! Brilliant.
And Grandpa does his bit too when he can find the time. I bought him some tomato plants today so hope he will nurture them in the green house. Gardening must run in the Farquhar blood. Keep encouraging Mouse - there’s plenty to do here! I purchased a lovely wooden jigsaw in the auction at a jumble sale this weekend. I’m becoming quite a collector. They might be worth something one day. Carole
We’re all scabby mudpluggers. In fact, I reckon it’s our therapy - we don’t have any truck with the professionals - give us a spade and some constructive grubbing and we’re as right as rain!
Thanks so much for buying him things - he loves you to bits, Carole - it’s wonderful!
I am jealous. I never know where to start so keep putting it off…Sounds lovely. And I’m with you on just being mad. Sometimes it is good to just let it out and being in that moment.
I love being mad - well, I must do, else why would I do it so much?
Start anywhere! You should have seen the mess my garden was in after I had Mouse. It’s back in check now!
I like to think of it less as mess and more as ’serendipity at work’… when you leave live things to get on with it by themselves for a bit, they can sometimes surprise you rather pleasantly
Serendipity at work - I love it. It’s true, too. Al lsorts of things have spread and quietly arrived that I don’t remember planting!